I always had crushes on boys who made me laugh. From kindergarden till now, a good sense of humour has always drawn me in.
My first boyfriends name was Chris, I didn’t like him all that much. He started off as a good friend who eventually asked me out. This was in grade 8.
In grade 9 I dated a boy named Jacon who I met on facebook from Guelph (not very smart) he was my age and since I was too afraid to get my parents to drive me to Guelph to see him, I got Kiona’s dad to drive us to the Guelph movie theater to meet up with him. It was my first time meeting him and he ended up being much uglier than he was in his pictures, and weirder. We only hung out together 5 times in the course of 9 months, I broke up with him after realizing how immature he was (and because I liked Zach)
Me and Zach dated on and off for about a year and a bit, we had a very good relationship because we started off as close friends and were also very similar with our music and fashion tastes. I was also very hurt from him because of his lack of affection which made me feel like he didn’t care about me. We broke up and became close friends and still are very close. Its weird to even think that we were together at one point.
I was with Justin for a little while, he was very sweet but had anger problems and smoked a lot of cigarettes (and weed) and came from a bad family, he moved to Milton and that’s when we broke up.
In grade 11 I dated Matt who was from GDHS, I knew him through Zach. He was considered ‘popular’ and I felt very out of place being with him but felt honoured at the same time and had a lot of fun with him and his friends. It was a typical highschool relationship. He had a blue Jeep that we drove around in in the summer listening to our favourite bands, and I met his family at his family reunion that we drove for 3 hours to located in Sauble Beach in August, where we went tubing at a lake with his cousins. I remember the drive home was late and cool and we had good conversations. He broke up with me because of losing interest which really upset me at the time, because my interest was getting stronger.
In November of that same year, Alanna set me and her boyfriends friend, Will, up on a double date with them, where we ended up going out all together for the next 2 months every weekend. It was short but fun. He was 3 years older and mature which I liked for a change. After Christmas he told me he was also losing interest, and that we had to end things. I wasn’t too upset about him, but more upset about being so ‘boring’ to everyone.
Me and Nathan started dating a day after Valentines Day, he treats me better than any of my past boyfriends have. He is highly interested in the thought of being with me and knows how to have fun and take me places. We have been good friends since September and he’s always liked me, he told me he tried hard to ‘wheel’ me throughout all those months and is now so happy he finally has me.
I’ve never been one of those girls who wants a boyfriend or feels that I need one, I find friends are more important that relationships. I’m not very sentimental and the total opposite of a romantic. I can be difficult to be with for this reason. I think having fun with friends and focussing on school is more important at this point in life.